The Love Test

by D. Stephenson Bond, L.M.H.C.
How do you define love? The word "love" means different things to different people. And each of us has his or her own style of loving someone. Do you put more initial emphasis on friendship? Need to feel the romantic spark from the first second? Form an intense attachment, or keep your distance? Find out what kind of lover you are with this quiz!

Directions:

Read each question carefully and give the answer that best describes the way you think or feel most of the time. When answering you may consider a current, past or future relationship. Different relationships will receive different scores.

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How do you know when to move into a physical relationship?
- It really depends on what the other person is comfortable with.
- Simple: when you both want to (generally quickly).
- Often takes quite a while before you realize you are physically attracted.
- Should happen naturally when a deep enough intimacy has developed (no rushing).

What�s the first clue you receive about whether this person might be right for you?
- We have the same goals in life.
- A feeling that I would do anything to help this person.
- The first time we kissed or embraced, I felt "turned on."
- We were able to talk to each other like long lost friends.

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